Sunday, January 2, 2011

Rant

The past few months have been extremely busy with all sorts of things. Sales wise, I dont think I've ever had such a busy season before. I combined custom orders with regular sales,wrapped up orders and send 'em out, tried to keep up with the stock of the feelings and even work on a few new things in between.
I wish I could say I enjoyed it all but that would be a lie. So here's a little rant to start off the new year and kick out the negative vibes so I can leave it behind and move on...
I didn't enjoy getting home to my inbox being overly full. Half of those usually were treasury notifications from people who include my work in their treasury. Don't get me wrong, I love being included in treasuries but the amount of convo's were at times quite overwhelming.
It made me happy but also a bit stressed as sometimes I didn't had a chance to look right away and I certainly don't want to be ungrateful as I really do appreciate the inclusion in so many wonderful lists! I really, really do! Thank you! :)
The other half of the messages seemed to come from people that wanted to know when their package arrived. If I had a crystall ball, I would definately grab it and tell them.
But I don't have one so this really has been the most stressful factor of the past weeks and I think I grew more then a few grey hairs too.
Due to weather conditions and customs/security in US, lots of packages are delayed and basicly there is nothing I can do about that. As soon as a package leaves my hands, it's out of my control and I have to depend on postal services to bring it to it's destination safely.
But still some people seem to expect that they will get a home delivery the day after they order. Tsk tsk! :(

If you live in the US and you order a gift on the 13th of december in Europe and expect it to arrive before X-mas, then you have ordered too late. So when people write 3 times within the same week to ask where their package is, I really have no lines to say anymore by the 3rd reply...
It saddens me that in extremely busy times I need to deal with other people's impatience and failure to order in time. So yes, I dislike that too.

This year the last day for garantueed arrival of the packages will be the 25th of November. Order early to prevent dissapointment please!
I'm not putting myself through this stress ever again...
I have been selling online for more the 3 years and only had 2 packages lost and 2 packages damaged so far. So I think that's a pretty good statistic. I do hope that the excellent service from post companies world wide will help me keep these statistics this way. *knock on wood*
And whatever goes wrong, there is always a solution if there is communication! I've never failed in giving good customer service so people just have to trust me on that.

Another thing that bugged me were some custom orders. Customers inquire a certain thing and then when you get to work and have a few questions regarding the order, they are not responding to you. Clay is a medium that dries and I like to finish it off in a timely matter because that just makes it easier. No response prevented that. It annoyed me as it kept creeping around on my to do list. So, GRRR to that too!

I feel like I kind of start this new year with a very low energy level and the pile of work I look upon is still very large. And don't get me wrong: I love selling on line but it has it's perks and I just wanted to share that it's not always roses and sunshine.
Besides, I'm only human too you know... and most of the time I love it all!
Thank goodness!
Now that the rant is over, I feel I can start fresh and get on with the job.
Aahhh, feels good! :)

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I hear you Mitsy . I close up my online shop end of November each year for that very reason. Yes I miss the sales but I don't miss the delivery hassles lol. This year must have been extra stressful with the weather conditions :( I think I'm going to stop online custom orders again - whilst I appreciate that someone likes my work enough to order a piece the amount of time put into the design, photographing materials, convos, tweeks, more photos, etc etc is never considered by the customer - they expect the price to be the same as a piece in my shop .... (there that's my rant not sure I feel better though ) Pam x
Hugs to you, Mitsy...and if I lived around the corner I'd come over and help you--but since I don't live around the corner, I am going to my studio and try to make an orderly place out of chaos. :-)

You have always amazed me--the amount of fine work you do, and your inspiration to others is enormous. XO
aaaaaaaaaaaaaah!! I'm grateful for your rant! Really I am!
You are always positive, so I think letting all that anger out is a very good thing and just makes you more sympathetic (if that is possible). :)

Customers can be a pain and ranting helps to cool down.
I don't mind if you rant at all. (well if you start ranting on a daily basis it might get on our nerves haha!)

Hugs to you!
And yay for occasional ranting!

Stéphanie
oh and congrats for all the sales :)
Happy New Year Mitsy! Hope 2011 will be a very good one for you!
Always good to get stuff like this of your chest!
New Year here you come!!
Oh I feel with you MItsy,
I have had the same: even had a sale on the evening before we left to Sweden.... so quickly packed it and then asked my sister to please take it to the Post office..... It is getting a more family business that way :)
Less stress is a nice goal for 2011 and I bet you will be grumphy when you don;t get something to pack and send off. start doubting and all, hihihihihi

have a nice day,
hugs, Kim
poor Mitsy ! It's very good to rant a bit here, taking it out of your system. I also wish sometimes that I am living on a desert island ..... But people everywhere, and with all their inconveniences :)
Hugs, P8
I so hear you Mitsy. I had the same and at the end of 2009 I stopped the most of the custom orders. I just couldn't blend it in with the online shop in scrapbook- and craft articles I have anymore. I do have plans to sell my homemade things again (mixed in the online shop) but no more custom orders. It gave me so much stress, not healty for a human being (but it took me a while too see that).
Please take good care of yourself and don't loose the fun of creating. You make such amazing things. Love it. I hope you have a great 2011.
Thank you so very much dear Mitsy for sharing this!
Many hugs and the best wishes for the New Year!!!
Dear Mitsy,

You are one of the loveliest people I've met online and your customer service is always absolutely brilliant. It's a pleasure to buy from you and to know you, so please feel free to have a good rant and let the frustration out whenever you need to! I totally understand why you're annoyed about certain things, and I also feel the need to vent my anger via my blog or twitter as well sometimes! :D

Wishing you a very happy and less stressful 2011. I'm looking forward to seeing what new ideas you'll come up with this year!

Love Natasha xo
Glad that it felt good to get it all out :)

I can't believe people get angry when they place their orders so late - geez!
online selling is a risky business as, as you say once the package is in the postal system it is out of your control. i started selling this year on etsy and was badly burnt by a customer in australia who expected her parcel to arrive within a week, from france to australia, normal postal service. get real. she was impossible to deal with and left me 5 negative feedbacks (5 objects on one order =one parcel) decimating my credibility. sometimes a rant is due and good for you. relax if possible and gather yourself for a fun 2011...
I can relate to some of what you're saying. I don't think I've been quite as busy, but maybe on a smaller scale. My biggest frustration is with custom orders - when the customer inquires about it and asks if I can make a certain thing, and I say yes, then they order 8 or them in different colors, very specific. One bead does not take long, but 8 sure does! And the variety of colors, etc., is a lot to keep track of. Like you, I am happy for the order, but the original inquiry is for one item, and then all of the sudden it's for so many that I can't possibly make them in the same amount of time.
Ok, there's my rant. Felt good.
Maybe January will be slow and steady, and you can take it easy and play catch-up. That's what I'm hoping for. Happy New Year!!! :)
I love this post, good for you! I hope it made you feel heaps better :)
*HUG* and a very happy new year to you and your dutchboy, from us.
Ness and Ed
How about those last minute shoppers ( mostly male) who don't seem to notice the giant letters : NO LONGER TAKING XMAS ORDERS ?

I have also learnt a lot this Xmas, and will be better prepared for next year!

Cheers!
Marie
Good post, Mitsy!
I'm agree with you about the deadline on 25th of Dec (or may be before) because all my packages sent in the end of Nov are still on the way......!
Take rest, calm and breath.
hugz,

Anastasia

P.S: and I won't send you more notifications ab treasures :D
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alex keller · 743 weeks ago

luckily, my shops are not as busy as yours, i think. i don't know if i could do it!!!
but please don't ever stop creating and sharing your work! i still need to get a few feelings!
i'd love to have them all .... but where to display them??? :) i'll just have to make a decision!
hope you are well - perhaps a spa day is in order?? or at least a massage?
happy new year!!! and as the Ukrainians say, "Shchaslyvoho Novoho Roku" - good luck in the new year!
Mitsy, I understand your frustration! I still don't know if my parcels to US, worth $$$ have been delivered or not. One for almost sure is missing..... I even stopped selling worldwide for some period and had to change my shipping policies - and am at the verge of stopping selling on-line if this mess with deliveries continues. I must say though that my customers, as most Etsy customers, have been great and understanding. And what has been said about custom orders, it's true, it rarely pays off. I still do them, not because of the business, but most of the time because I find customer's idea originall.
I wish you and your on-line business a very happy and succesfull New Year 2011. (ps: and I too can't wait for spring...:)
I love and admire your honesty. Wishing you a wonderful stressfree 2011.
Your blog is awesome.
Very very familiar! I got a lot of "where is my package?" questions too, and angry messages from people who didn't get their packages within 7 days, from Europe to the USA, in December. And then the Dutch postal service being on strike definitely didn't make things better! Yikes!

I'll send you a message about those bobby pins soon by the way! Still working on goind through my mailbox too.
very familiair to my daily job ... not to my sales ... yet ;-)
People these days have no more patience. Be sure this wil not change in the future, so it's
very good to rant every now and then !
It's good to get it out Mitsy. You are such a lovely person - it's terrible that people take advantage of that. Hugs, Kx
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Margie Cansino · 743 weeks ago

I hear you. I will skip ordering from you so you can be more happy and sweet. Trashing your customers publicly is NOT good customer service. So...I think you need to rewrite a bit. Now we know how you feel about us and it hurts.
Rant away sweetie!
But.. are you sure you're human? I've always questioned that.. more like a super hero to me :)
Love and a great year for you,
Ana

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